Pride at Darkhei Noam
Pride at Darkhei Noam
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Pride at Darkhei Noam is a committee that supports and strengthens the community of LGBTQ+ members of Darkhei Noam.
Pride at Darkhei Noam sponsors social, chesed, and educational events in addition to an annual Pride Shabbat. Events are often aimed for the LGBTQ+ community but are open to the entire Darkhei community.
Pride looks forward to welcoming newcomers to Darkhei Noam. If you want to know more about the LGBTQ+ experience at our shul and our activities, contact the committee at pride@dnoam.org
Darkhei Noam is an inclusive community that adheres to Halacha. For answers to questions regarding the participation of the LGBTQ+ community in Darkhei Noam’s traditional services, please see the FAQs.
Pride Shabbat at Darkhei Noam
Shabbat June 20-21

Friday Night Mix and Match Dinner, Special D'var Torah Speaker, Rabbi Sharon Kleinbaum, Pride-Sponsored Kiddush and Pot Luck Shaleshudes- MORE DETAILS BELOW:
The entire Darkhei Noam community are welcome to join DN Pride for our 4th annual Pride Shabbat June 20-21st.
Friday June 20:
1. Kabbalat Shabbat at 7:00 PM at Manhattan Country School, 150 W. 85th street
2. Mix and Match Pride Shabbat Dinner register here
Shabbat June 21:
1. Shacharit at 9:15 AM at Manhattan Country School, 150 W. 85th street, with special guest speaker, Rabbi Sharon Kleinbaum, Senior Rabbi Emerita of Congregation Beit Simchat Torah.
2. Festive community kiddush after davening
3. Community potluck seudah shelishit at 5:00 at the home of Sandy and Leana Tapnack. Full location information and sign up here.
FAQ's about Darkhei Noam and LGBTQ involvement click here
Join our WhatsApp group for the most up to date information on events and community happenings.
We look forward to seeing you there
Pride Shabbat is still seeking sponsorships for kiddush and for our special guest. To sponsor or for more information, please email pride@dnoam.org.
Mon, December 15 2025
25 Kislev 5786
Today's Calendar
| Chanukah |
| Chanukah 5786 : 12:00am |
This week's Torah portion is Parshat Miketz
| Shabbat, Dec 20 |
Candle Lighting
| Friday, Dec 19, 4:12pm |
Havdalah
| Motzei Shabbat, Dec 20, 5:13pm |
Chanukah
| Monday, Dec 15 |
Upcoming Events
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Sunday ,
DecDecember 14 , 2025Chanukah 5786
Sunday, Dec 14th 4:30p to Monday, Dec 22nd 5:00p
Chanukah 5786 December 15-22, 2025 // 25 Kislev - 2 Tevet 5786 HAPPY CHANUKAH FROM DARKHEI NOAM Chanukah begins this year at sundown on Sunday, December 14th (at 4:53 PM) Chanukah is a celebration commemorating the rededication of the Temple in the time of the Maccabees in the second century BCE. The name Chanukah means “dedication” (Chanukat haBayit - Dedication of the Temple). Our tradition tells us that when the Maccabees defeated the Greeks and entered the Temple, there was not enough pure oil to light the menorah for more than one night. But the single cruse of oil that they found burned for eight full days. To publicize these miracles, we light candles and say Hallel on all eight days of Chanukah, including Al Hanisim during Birkat Hamazon. Some customs of the holiday include playing dreidel and eating sufganiyot (jelly donuts), latkes (fried potato pancakes), dairy foods, and chocolate gelt. Join the Darkhei Noam dreidel-a- thon on Shabbat December 20th during kiddush! SHABBAT REMINDERS: The sixth night of Chanukah begins on Friday night, December 19 - remember to light the chanukiah BEFORE lighting Shabbat candles at 4:12 PM. At least one of the candles should be big enough to last for about an hour and a half. Some people use Shabbat type candles (thicker and longer-lasting) candles in their chanukiah to ensure that the flame stay lit into the night The seventh night of Chanukah begins on Saturday night, December 20 - remember to light the menorah AFTER havdalah at 5:17 PM. The seventh day of Chanukah, Rosh Chodesh Tevet, is known as Chag haBanot/ Eid al-Banat. Celebrated primarily by North African Jewish communities, this day honors the role of women in Jewish life and female heroes such as Judith. The last day of Chanukah is known as Zot Chanukah, from the words of a Torah verse read on that day, and has special significance for some Jews at the culmination of the holiday. Candle lighting is at 4:56 PM. כל אחד הוא אור קטן וכלנו אור איתן “Everyone is a small light and all together we are a powerful unwavering light” - from the Chanukah song Ba’nu Choshech Legaresh (lyrics here) May the lights of our menorahs drive out the darkness in the world. CHAG OORIM SAMEACH! -
Friday ,
DecDecember 19 , 2025Shabbat Chanukah Dinner: Friday Night, December 19, 2025
Friday, Dec 19th 5:12p to 8:00p
Join the Darkhei Noam community for Chanukah Shabbat Dinner, Friday, December 19th -
Saturday ,
DecDecember 20 , 2025In Shul Dreidel-a-thon
Shabbat, Dec 20th 11:45a to 12:30p
Please join for a friendly Darkhei Noam Dreidel-a-thon on Shabbat December 20th, 6th day of Chanukah during Kiddush. for all ages: there will be two full tournaments; one for children and one for adults.
Volunteer to Lead Services!
If you would like to volunteer to lead services, read from the Torah or give a D'var Torah, please click here!
Get Involved in Communal Programming
If you would like to volunteer within our community please click here.
Join Darkhei Noam on WhatsApp
DN Chesed will be used to connect the community and alert members to volunteering opportunities.
Need a laugh? You'll find jokes, videos, memes and more at DN Comic Relief.
If you identify as a "Young Professional" in the Darkhei Noam community and are interested in connecting with others, join Darkhei Noam YPs WhatsApp Group!
Do you have a child participating in the Darkhei Noam Youth Program? Would you like to connect with other parents? Join the DN Youth WhatsApp group to be in the know.
Pride at Darkhei Noam welcomes all LGBTQ+ members of DN to our WhatsApp group.
Join DN Stands for Israel to share resources and support.
Email info@dnoam.org to request the sign-up links.
Mailing address: c/o Alistair Gatoff, 215 West 91st Street, #122, New York, NY 10024
Shabbat morning meeting address: 1 West 88th Street (at Trevor Day School)
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